those who know me and those who dont ...
Those who know me,knows that I am a very truthful, straightforward and caring person. A very loyal friend who would stand by you no matter what. A person with a character no matter what any one says, I do not believe in gossip and tend to confirm if I have doubts. but it really hurts when some one is only using my shoulder to cry and in happy times I am being wiped off the "friends" board.
I had a friend in college who used to behave same way. I ignored my other friends just to support her in her blue days. What did I get, each happy day she had a huge group of friends and then other days she would cry on my shoulder. I was sick of it.
Best thing those days.. me and Sandeep got closer and we are best friends till date... its been more than 15-16 years now.
Isn't that great.
Then came along Raman, we were always closer to each other than any other cousins in the family may be coz of dad and Bhuaji. Later we became best friends. We have the best memories of pind and mullianwal. The fun time. We share same love and warmth even now, but as both are grown up and mature ( She was always the wise one, I admit) , the relationship is really awesome.Her judgement about certain ppl is so right, I never believed her at that time but now I can recall each sentence. Trust me.
I know we don't pick and choose our relatives but when we have the ppl who care for you just the way you care for them, life becomes great.
In her third year of Graduation, when Raman was most of the time at mulianwal, Mandeep came to Dhesian, she is the elder daughter of my youngest mamaji. We both had a weird relationship, she was always scared of me.
Then like everybody else when they interact with me,- she said - you are so nice and I always thought you are a no fun person.
We both share beautiful times together time and she was the one who cried the most on my wedding day. I didn't.
Why should I. After going through the b*** S*** of so many years, there was no reason to cry.
Anyways ..
Now the mood is changed, so I will write the rest some other time..
In my life whoever I have loved, I have given my faith, trust and love 100%, but there are very few ppl who gave me the same love and trust back. It is good to see those ppl in my life.
I feel lucky and I thank god for surrounding me with the good souls.
I had a friend in college who used to behave same way. I ignored my other friends just to support her in her blue days. What did I get, each happy day she had a huge group of friends and then other days she would cry on my shoulder. I was sick of it.
Best thing those days.. me and Sandeep got closer and we are best friends till date... its been more than 15-16 years now.
Isn't that great.
Then came along Raman, we were always closer to each other than any other cousins in the family may be coz of dad and Bhuaji. Later we became best friends. We have the best memories of pind and mullianwal. The fun time. We share same love and warmth even now, but as both are grown up and mature ( She was always the wise one, I admit) , the relationship is really awesome.Her judgement about certain ppl is so right, I never believed her at that time but now I can recall each sentence. Trust me.
I know we don't pick and choose our relatives but when we have the ppl who care for you just the way you care for them, life becomes great.
In her third year of Graduation, when Raman was most of the time at mulianwal, Mandeep came to Dhesian, she is the elder daughter of my youngest mamaji. We both had a weird relationship, she was always scared of me.
Then like everybody else when they interact with me,- she said - you are so nice and I always thought you are a no fun person.
We both share beautiful times together time and she was the one who cried the most on my wedding day. I didn't.
Why should I. After going through the b*** S*** of so many years, there was no reason to cry.
Anyways ..
Now the mood is changed, so I will write the rest some other time..
In my life whoever I have loved, I have given my faith, trust and love 100%, but there are very few ppl who gave me the same love and trust back. It is good to see those ppl in my life.
I feel lucky and I thank god for surrounding me with the good souls.