Poems, writings,literature......

I have been thinking on this topic for last few days... the moment I read something written by someone too close to me. So close I sometime be his shadow or take it for granted that he will be my shadow. Anyways ... the question hit my head .. or nailed my head w as.... what is good n what is bad,... is the literature I been reading since school really bad. Double meaning bull shit.
Why am I finding it hard to make all this look sexually inspired writings. Is Sex all.... Is there any thing in this world that is named feeling or... pardon my words.. feelings is the word used by one gender to get into other's pants. Is that all. Is that all we are. We such an advanced race. .. so Bawa Balwant's poem - Roz usda har tut jaya kare ... should be interpreted ... the girl is breaking her own necklace coz she had a fling with jeweller n she wanted to see his privately. Cant use any hard words. Its not just society or culture that stops you to use crude words.. its bringing up too. anyways... I am still thinking about all this.
Mother is known to be second to God.... how does a woman become a mother... are we being hypocrites.. if we are not taking about how a female got pregnant and conceived and we are only talking about her love for her kids and family.. I do not think so.
I saw the pictures of Ajanta n Alora... I find it obscene too.... but I can imagine the person who thought about that or who was making it might have found 'his god' in that creation. The writings are the children of an author. How they got the life.. doesn't matter ... what they are does. Who remembers... who was Shiv Kumar's girl Friend or girl Friends.. but everyone remember his poems... same with MOhan singh and Sahir.. and Amrita... and Keats and Shakespeare.
Its more like what we are thinking when we are reading or watching.... we may find God in it and we may just lust .... its only US.