Mysterious Mind...
Sometimes you just introspect and so many things come in light. To do that you have to have a talk with yourself. You have to take a moment with yourself. Do you do that? That is the most important thing to do if you can ever realize. Most of the time during our work or day we dont realize that. Most of the people go through this phase in later years of their life and then they would be saying all their "Oh Well's" and "What if's".
It is so easy to say - Live in the moment. Do what you want to do. Live your life.
Can we actually do that?
Are we allowed to do that?
Does our conscience lets us be so selfish and live just our life?
Once we have kids can we just live our own life?
There are so many moments you just want to leave everything and walk away. Must have happened to you too. May be at work.. may be at home .. may be while waiting for a ride in the amusement park.
You never did that. First two places coz you can not. There are people who depend on you and third place because even though there is wait you just want to be there. Isn't it.
What exactly is it? What exactly goes in Human mind? Why so many things are so easier to say than done? Why is it easier to preach than do?
Very Simple things can make this heart so very happy but these very simple things are so hard to get.
Why do people proclaim Love and then prove themselves so wrong?
When ever I think about these things, first thing that comes to my mind is - Am I one of these hypocrites? But thankfully I might be everything else in this world but I am not fake. I am not a hypocrite. I do what I say and say what I do.
My question still stays the same - if life can be so very happy with such simple things then why dont we do them? Its Love that makes us happy. It could be your friend's love, your children, your spouse, your love for yourself.
If its Love then why is it so hard to accept?
Once I had this question in my head - We fall in love, but do we fall out of love?
After a year or so .. I found the answer .. NO, We dont fall out of love. If it seems like that someone is falling out of love then it wasnt love at first place.
Love doesnt mean having someone with you 24/7. Love is trust. Love is knowing that if anything or everything goes bad, there is one person who can still make you smile and say.. so what .. You can fix it.
Love is trust.
Love is trust in yourself as well.
Before you can love anyone else make sure you love yourself.
You might say ... yeah thats so simple, I know that.. but while doing it in real life thats the thing we forget.
If we cant love ourself we cant anyone else. If and when we dont love ourselves or we dont have someone who love us then is the time all the dark thoughts come to our head.
Depression is something that is very dark and once that walks in, its hard to kick it out but now the brightness of love can make it go as well.
You have to have a very strong will power for that.
Strength of mind and body both start from with in.
These things can get tested when the moments come when either you have to start something or walk out of something.
But it isnt that easy ...
What if .. what if.. what if..
that kills you ..
Whether you do or not ..
This what if will kill you anyways ...
Its better to do and just say - Oh well ....
Next time you introspect .. you better have more "oh well's" than " What if's" .. :)