Ramblings at midnight

Why does a woman have to hear this - so since now your friend is separated, are you planning to live there too?  Why such insecurities? Why punish your wife because her friend has made a decision?
Do you know why?  I know why,  It is because of the ripple effect, you are scared of.
You know that if one of her friend's has gathered courage, what if?
These men won't change their way of treating their wives but want her to worship him as Nutan did to Sunil Dutt in Milan. Yeah! You got it. These men are just like Sunil dutts's character, who was disabled. Aren't these men just the same. Be it in America, Canada or India.

* This para is added next morning-   it raises another question as well , what did she say that he said that sentence? Did he say that? Or you are using him to make sure by saying this you are putting yourself on high horse as you have to feel important?
I have no idea as I believed only the first explanation earlier ( I wrote this last night before going to bed and this morning it just hit me what if it happened but in a different context and you are being told in a different way)*

Let's get back to the topic, what about that friend who recently got separated. Have you ever thought when you ask her, you should mend ties with estranged spouse.
What do you think she didn't think of that? She must be pretty darn stupid that walked out of her house and waited for you to tell her oh go back. Sure, I will.
Why is it so hard to accept that no one ever wants to break their home or relationship.
Wait, I generalize, may be, what if there is someone who wants that.
Anyways, but it isn't the case here.
This is the person who just wanted to be the best wife ever and she bend over backwards for him. Whatever he said, she did it. What a stupid woman.
She could have reached moon and what did she do?
Reflection of moon in a pond, dirty, icky pond made her believe, I am the real deal. And she stupid woman, or girl at that time. Naive girl bought it. For years ... Love eh! so much for love. On the name of love.
Sometimes I feel love is overrated. But then that little girl in me, looks at me and I realize what is left in life if there is no love. Yes! That's the passion and intensity I have. The soul. Passionate soul.
Decades ago, my sister said - let me show you stars outside, and me stupid me, walked outside with her believing if she said it, then it is right. There was nothing out there. I was disappointed. Stupid me. Then she said raising her fist - wanna see stars? Did you get it? I think you did. Oh well. I still remember that day. It's frozen or engraved in my mind.
Why-  coz I am still that honest person. Not that naive but I still quick to trust. Working on setting up healthy boundaries. Working on continuously to believe what ppl say when they say and what they say.
I don't love the potential anymore. I am working on loving myself more and more everyday. I am working on healing.

Kahan se chale the aur Kahan aa pahunce ...
Aur aage Kahan Kahan Tak pahunchenge.
Kyunki...
Sitaron ke aage
Jahan aur bhi Hain.