being parent

If you are not ready to have

 disabled 

Gay 

Trans

Lesbian

Atheist

Ugly

Fat

Unhealthy

Terminally ill

Bad behaving

Rude

Bipolar

Depressed

Anxious

Child and if you are only happy with your kids when they are doing what you tell them and they are living your dream with their dreams crushed, 

sadly, 

You are not ready to be a parent.