Family ...
Since my childhood I thought in your family- it is Mommy Daddy and kids, but in Mamaji's family - Bapu ji is included and Mamiji Bro living with them was normal.All Chacha ji and Tayajis living close by in Pind are the way it should be.
Visiting Dadke family in Vacation time was good enough. Living in our own house at Pind was never a thought.(Later on realized it was just fate).
Then Daddy passed away and all the changes happened. In India ppl think that after a year once the "Vareena" is done. Life is normal or should be. But only the survivors know that it takes all the life, just to know how to cope.
Anyways, for years I had lost lost touch with my dad's family. Which is normal coz they reminded me of not having my dad with me.
But now I am trying to stay in touch with all of them. Life is very short. I may not be able to explain them why I wasn't able to call them/visit them but I don't want that happen again. I know some of my cousins are just like me. Just want to be in touch with family.
I talked to Billa Veerji today after ages. I had loved him like my own bro and my dad loved him like his son. I know he always cared for us too. When I talked to him today he was so Happy and almost choked when I said I am Harpreet and for couple of secs he was quite,might be wondering if this is real call or not. He was so happy. And his happiness made me so happy. We still share same feelings.
Then he was telling me his kids names and I was like- I know veerji. You don't have to tell or remind me. But I am not the same little girl you met years ago. I have two kids now.
then Komal got the phone and I thought this kid might have forgotten her Bhuaji but she said I remember you and I have always missed you.Veerji said I made his day but he and Komal made my day. I am so happy.
Visiting Dadke family in Vacation time was good enough. Living in our own house at Pind was never a thought.(Later on realized it was just fate).
Then Daddy passed away and all the changes happened. In India ppl think that after a year once the "Vareena" is done. Life is normal or should be. But only the survivors know that it takes all the life, just to know how to cope.
Anyways, for years I had lost lost touch with my dad's family. Which is normal coz they reminded me of not having my dad with me.
But now I am trying to stay in touch with all of them. Life is very short. I may not be able to explain them why I wasn't able to call them/visit them but I don't want that happen again. I know some of my cousins are just like me. Just want to be in touch with family.
I talked to Billa Veerji today after ages. I had loved him like my own bro and my dad loved him like his son. I know he always cared for us too. When I talked to him today he was so Happy and almost choked when I said I am Harpreet and for couple of secs he was quite,might be wondering if this is real call or not. He was so happy. And his happiness made me so happy. We still share same feelings.
Then he was telling me his kids names and I was like- I know veerji. You don't have to tell or remind me. But I am not the same little girl you met years ago. I have two kids now.
then Komal got the phone and I thought this kid might have forgotten her Bhuaji but she said I remember you and I have always missed you.Veerji said I made his day but he and Komal made my day. I am so happy.