A Few "Good" Women
A few good women is dedicated to all the close minded women who support men no matter what.They already consider themselves as doormats. They will find rapes and abuses the females fault. This species can be found everywhere in India, specially. Now they have migrated outside of India with same closed mind to other countries.These "Good Women" never appreciate an Independent Woman who can talk for herself, but always think a Doormat as dignified woman.These "Good Women" are more of mouth pieces of Chauvinist men.Bravo to these "Good Women" who are giving their 100% to abusers and rapists. Thank you to you all that you always question the victim not the abuser.You must be wondering that I am doing crazy talk. You can say that, but this is more of mad one.Here are examples why -
-----------A year ago a rape happened - She was out till lateAbuse happens in the house - She is trying to give bad name to "Respectable" manAbuse at work - Why did she act normalDomestic abuse by husband - Why did she angered her husbandAbuse by relatives - She made the man come on herFiling a rape - She is doing for moneyFiling a rape - Whats the proofAbuse - She must have enjoyed it plentyAbuse second time in a row - She is the reason ---------------These are the things you will read or hear very often after a rape or abuse case comes. Sexual molestation or abuse isn't a happening yet for India. These days they think that a rape is a rape when it is done with brutal force, torture and in a group.
A rape by one man will not even considered to be filed coz the moment the girl goes to police, they will rape her worse with cheap lecherous questions, eyes and once she is out of there she is black listed in her house, colony, town or village. At the end she will commit suicide or honour killing happened.Now interesting fact - educated women, Women with doctorates support Honour killing. I have seen it very close.
Anyways, rapes happen. It a woman's fault. we know that. Yes.. its her fault that she is born. Abuse happens coz she was there. It is her fault.
Another high profile case is in news. It isn't a rape, it isn't forced with might but by power of influence. It is sexual molestation or a sexual abuse.In Sexual abuse not just the body but the mind, heart, trust, faith everything gets violated.Some women take time after rape to react, to file a complaint etc.About the abuse - Sometimes it takes years before you get courage to stand up and talk about it.Because the abuser is usually a well named and respected person in society. He has good relations with your family.Above all, he will repeat this one sentence - No one will ever believe you.Coz of his older age than the victim he knows what kind of behaviour not do in front of public and what kind of things to say and do to make it look like that the victim was coming on to him.He will keep on discussing with other his age ppl how the younger person, who will be his victim,is always following him around.Later on many person will say, poor abuser told us how she led him to do all this. Blah blah blah.Here I am talking mostly about India but can you imagine in North America,once a teacher got away with abusing a 14 year old kid and proved in court that she acted way mature than her age and her body looked mature too. So she shouldn't be considered as 14 yr old kid.
If thats your daughter talked about would you tolerate such thing. Poor kid, she committed suicide.In most of the rapes and abuses that what happens. Killing themselves. Indian psyche support that, coz they say after such happening the life will be hard anyways, so now at least she is dead.I do not agree with it. Life is harder coz the "Good women" and "Influenced men" make it like that. The morals which were ignored during the abuse, suddenly becomes a part of everyone's conversation.Death by the victim is a failure of society. The society is so shallow with their values that couldn't make some one feel secure.The "Good women" say that the girl in the latest Tehelka case is doing for money - Tell me honestly, is it really what you think?
In India, can a woman earn that much money by spreading her false abuse or rape story and live happily ever after.Some women who support go out with placards for justice. I think these days, we have to put these placards in the minds of close minded "Good women" who consider the rapes and abuses the fault of a women. That she instigated, or she was at the wrong place or she didn't yell loud enough or she didn't talk like a mature 40 something woman at her age of 6,10,12,17,22.As per these "Good Women" a woman has to be born with a mind of 40 plus woman to save herself from each bad happening.I know a woman who thinks that the domestic abuse is a woman's fault coz she made her husband made and that why he hit her. Seriously ??These days we not only need educated woman but enlightened ones as well. The women who support other women. Not the ones who will be out with placards and later blame their sister in laws or Daughter in laws for anything happening in their lives.Now, we need these "Good women" who at their 40 something age think that the girls can save themselves with their tactics. Please teach these kids or young girls the tactics to save themselves.In India where a girl's life can by ruined by throwing acid, just coz she said no to the bully, can these Few "Good" women teach these girls how to save themselves?We need these "Good women" out on TV, they have so much to teach the younger generation to save themselves from abuse. They might be able to teach a 2 month old as well to act like 40 plus to save herself from molester, rapist and what not.Why haven't we used their skills so far. Too bad!.. Its not too late .. lets just get these Good women out. The closed minded ones who think that men are so good even if they rape. coz the women make them do that. Remember one was our President who changed one rapists death sentence to a smaller sentence of a few years in jail.Our society need these "Good women", who can support the rapists and abusers, blame the victim all the way. We don't need women who have made Gulabi gang to punish abusive men. We don't need a person like me either, who is writing to support the victims.We need "Good women" who can make sure the trampy victims die, die and die.
-----------A year ago a rape happened - She was out till lateAbuse happens in the house - She is trying to give bad name to "Respectable" manAbuse at work - Why did she act normalDomestic abuse by husband - Why did she angered her husbandAbuse by relatives - She made the man come on herFiling a rape - She is doing for moneyFiling a rape - Whats the proofAbuse - She must have enjoyed it plentyAbuse second time in a row - She is the reason ---------------These are the things you will read or hear very often after a rape or abuse case comes. Sexual molestation or abuse isn't a happening yet for India. These days they think that a rape is a rape when it is done with brutal force, torture and in a group.
A rape by one man will not even considered to be filed coz the moment the girl goes to police, they will rape her worse with cheap lecherous questions, eyes and once she is out of there she is black listed in her house, colony, town or village. At the end she will commit suicide or honour killing happened.Now interesting fact - educated women, Women with doctorates support Honour killing. I have seen it very close.
Anyways, rapes happen. It a woman's fault. we know that. Yes.. its her fault that she is born. Abuse happens coz she was there. It is her fault.
Another high profile case is in news. It isn't a rape, it isn't forced with might but by power of influence. It is sexual molestation or a sexual abuse.In Sexual abuse not just the body but the mind, heart, trust, faith everything gets violated.Some women take time after rape to react, to file a complaint etc.About the abuse - Sometimes it takes years before you get courage to stand up and talk about it.Because the abuser is usually a well named and respected person in society. He has good relations with your family.Above all, he will repeat this one sentence - No one will ever believe you.Coz of his older age than the victim he knows what kind of behaviour not do in front of public and what kind of things to say and do to make it look like that the victim was coming on to him.He will keep on discussing with other his age ppl how the younger person, who will be his victim,is always following him around.Later on many person will say, poor abuser told us how she led him to do all this. Blah blah blah.Here I am talking mostly about India but can you imagine in North America,once a teacher got away with abusing a 14 year old kid and proved in court that she acted way mature than her age and her body looked mature too. So she shouldn't be considered as 14 yr old kid.
If thats your daughter talked about would you tolerate such thing. Poor kid, she committed suicide.In most of the rapes and abuses that what happens. Killing themselves. Indian psyche support that, coz they say after such happening the life will be hard anyways, so now at least she is dead.I do not agree with it. Life is harder coz the "Good women" and "Influenced men" make it like that. The morals which were ignored during the abuse, suddenly becomes a part of everyone's conversation.Death by the victim is a failure of society. The society is so shallow with their values that couldn't make some one feel secure.The "Good women" say that the girl in the latest Tehelka case is doing for money - Tell me honestly, is it really what you think?
In India, can a woman earn that much money by spreading her false abuse or rape story and live happily ever after.Some women who support go out with placards for justice. I think these days, we have to put these placards in the minds of close minded "Good women" who consider the rapes and abuses the fault of a women. That she instigated, or she was at the wrong place or she didn't yell loud enough or she didn't talk like a mature 40 something woman at her age of 6,10,12,17,22.As per these "Good Women" a woman has to be born with a mind of 40 plus woman to save herself from each bad happening.I know a woman who thinks that the domestic abuse is a woman's fault coz she made her husband made and that why he hit her. Seriously ??These days we not only need educated woman but enlightened ones as well. The women who support other women. Not the ones who will be out with placards and later blame their sister in laws or Daughter in laws for anything happening in their lives.Now, we need these "Good women" who at their 40 something age think that the girls can save themselves with their tactics. Please teach these kids or young girls the tactics to save themselves.In India where a girl's life can by ruined by throwing acid, just coz she said no to the bully, can these Few "Good" women teach these girls how to save themselves?We need these "Good women" out on TV, they have so much to teach the younger generation to save themselves from abuse. They might be able to teach a 2 month old as well to act like 40 plus to save herself from molester, rapist and what not.Why haven't we used their skills so far. Too bad!.. Its not too late .. lets just get these Good women out. The closed minded ones who think that men are so good even if they rape. coz the women make them do that. Remember one was our President who changed one rapists death sentence to a smaller sentence of a few years in jail.Our society need these "Good women", who can support the rapists and abusers, blame the victim all the way. We don't need women who have made Gulabi gang to punish abusive men. We don't need a person like me either, who is writing to support the victims.We need "Good women" who can make sure the trampy victims die, die and die.