Friend Zone or Bhai Zone

You must be familiar with the word Friend Zone. That is when a guy thinks a girl more than a friend but the girl think him as a friend. Nothing ore than that. But if a girl has friend zoned you, it means you must be one of her very good friends.

Now lets take this concept to India. In India there is no such thing as Friends. Yes, the species of friends exist but it stays in same sex. The opposite sex can either be in a relationship or the girl should be calling the guy - Bhai. Just to make sure that the guy won't get any idea.

A confident girl or woman might think why? Why should I call a person Bhai when I do not consider him brother, he is just a friend nothing more than that. She is perfectly right in her thoughts but not the guy must be thinking... wow... she never called me Bhai. She is thinking more than that. and he is creating all true scenarios in his head. If he ever tries to make any advance and the woman complains, everyone will blame that woman. Wondering why? oh ! coz she never called him Bhai and the guy got wrong impression. It is that woman's fault that the guy got wrong impression.

As per Indian mentality it is all a woman's fault. Even if the woman tells the man that you are one of my very good friend's. I trust you or You are like just like my best friend. The guy will only be thinking one thing - She is interested. After that no matter how much you try to make that person realize unless you call him Bhai, no use.

Is the word Bhai so cheap that you have to use it to keep the men away from you ? Doesn't Bhai means Brother and Brother-Sister isn't a cheap relationship as far as I knew. It is one of the best friendships in the world.

So Brother and Sister are friends but if a woman have to make sure the guy won't be thinking 'something else' about their friendship she must be calling a man Bhai. Wah re great typical Indian Mentality.

Chit bhi meri aur Pat bhi meri.

If an Independent, Confident woman thinks this man knows my relationship status and I don't have to advertise it how happy I am, it isn't enough. Coz as per TIM (Typical Indian Mentality) if the woman hasn't called the man Bhai and did the crime of thinking the man as friend, there is nothing wrong in if the man makes advances or keeps on bugging the woman with sentimental stuff.

Hai re bhartiya aadmi! Kab Sudhrega tu!

Every woman in her life meets more than one such persons, and trust me, she is the one who gets the blame coz she never made it clear to that person.

Now you guys tell me - Does a Woman have to be walking around with a big placard that - I am not interested in you at all. I am happily married or single or I do not consider you more than a friend.

Even after a woman makes it clear once at one event, Man being a man won't stop. He will keep on trying, we know that. Isn't it. So the woman should be repeating her same placard eh!

Coz God Forbid she doesn't do once, that means she is interested.

What a mentality !

The latest on TV was Ajaz Khan flirting with Gauhar on #bb7. Even though that man knew she is in a new relationship with another man , he kept on trying. Now most of the Indian ppl are blaming the girl on Social media.

As I said earlier - We, the Women, have seen such men in our life more than once.

You asking me for solution - You must be kidding.

I was going to say .. if you found a solution please let me know as well.!!!!!!!!