takes two to tango

When someone says it takes two to tango
Not when you are married to a narcissist
Not with someone
A shred of truth 
Web of manipulations
Flying monkeys
Enablers helping
Knowing or Unknowingly
Making up stories
Changing stories
Gaslighting
making you feel you losing your mind
It doesn't take two to tango with a narc
With a borderline
Stop wasting your time
To figure out
Hoping for them to change