Conversation about life and realtionship
I was talking to me my cuz today and as usual we were talking about marriage, relationship and motherhood. My fav subjects. I can talk on these ones for hours. I have other subjects too. But not with this cuzyboo. I have told her so many good things from so long and best thing, she is happy that I am always there to tell her and I wont ever misguide.
Its good to see her happy with hubby and family. Actually once you have spent few years with your guy, then you kinda know about each other. I wont say that its only gal's responsibility to adapt new environment; the guy has to give a gal space and then same time pamper her if she is feeling blue.
Those couple of years are hard on every relationship and once you are gone through that. Life is better.
In a marriage, you have to keep on working. Try to make it better. Just like a nice recipe you always add a few spices for more flavour every time; so that it gets better flavour but same time it has your signature written all over.
Once you slow down or stop working and other one is still going at same pace.. things go off the track. Now that's a bad situation.
Then comes Babies... that is great time in a man and woman's life. Everybody always talk about motherhood, babies and women nothing about new father. Men have emotions too. Whether they know how to express or not. I am not talking about the men who are master actors. lol. They can pretend anything.
Having babies help you grow mature and worldly wise. Then you become God fearing and insecure person , but for your child and family.
But of course all these are phases of life .. they are all awesome. Just like seasons throughout the year.
You live and learn .. but I don't believe that Life is a school. Life is life. You gotta live it.
Its good to see her happy with hubby and family. Actually once you have spent few years with your guy, then you kinda know about each other. I wont say that its only gal's responsibility to adapt new environment; the guy has to give a gal space and then same time pamper her if she is feeling blue.
Those couple of years are hard on every relationship and once you are gone through that. Life is better.
In a marriage, you have to keep on working. Try to make it better. Just like a nice recipe you always add a few spices for more flavour every time; so that it gets better flavour but same time it has your signature written all over.
Once you slow down or stop working and other one is still going at same pace.. things go off the track. Now that's a bad situation.
Then comes Babies... that is great time in a man and woman's life. Everybody always talk about motherhood, babies and women nothing about new father. Men have emotions too. Whether they know how to express or not. I am not talking about the men who are master actors. lol. They can pretend anything.
Having babies help you grow mature and worldly wise. Then you become God fearing and insecure person , but for your child and family.
But of course all these are phases of life .. they are all awesome. Just like seasons throughout the year.
You live and learn .. but I don't believe that Life is a school. Life is life. You gotta live it.