We - The Women.
I was thinking about this from last couple of days and today I am writing.I always thought writing all this might offend some. I hope no one will take it personally. It is for and about all of us.
1 - Why whenever there is something in a marriage we always assume that the guy is bad. I am not saying that the gal is always good. What I am trying to say we start listening the story as poor gal. Evil guy.
Lets start the story Guy and gal.
2 - Why whatever the hubby says is wrong or evil or just to make fun of you. May be he is telling you something with genuine interest. May be you are one who wasn't listening and later his tone was all sarcastic. That is not good. But isn't what we gals do too. Be hell lot of sarcastic.
3 - Why we always want the guys to change. Change their stying,way of thinking,living , food choices. Everything. We just want to overhaul the guy but we don't wanna change a bit. We want him to be honest but when he tells us that this outfit or hairdo doesn't suit us we are mad and throw temper tantrum.
4 - Why we always want the guy to come to us and say sorry.
5 - Why it is always my(gal's) way or highway. at same time in front of our friends we are the poor pathetic creatures and hubby is so 'cruel'.
6 - Why we think the gal is the one who is more emotional. It is the gals who are cold blooded. The woman's decisions are more rational and cold as compared to men.
Still we are the one who try to look more sad and depressed after a fight/argument.
7 - why we always think that whenever a guy is outside the house he can only do adultery.
8 - Why we want him to be perfect man in front of our relatives but we are not ready to be perfect women when it comes to his showtime.
So Ladies, Don't take it personal but just think over. It is time to use your heart. You have using that damned head from so long. Before quiting on a relationship think over. Not just twice but 100 times. Life is not easy for anyone after bad public argument or break up even worse after a divorce.
1 - Why whenever there is something in a marriage we always assume that the guy is bad. I am not saying that the gal is always good. What I am trying to say we start listening the story as poor gal. Evil guy.
Lets start the story Guy and gal.
2 - Why whatever the hubby says is wrong or evil or just to make fun of you. May be he is telling you something with genuine interest. May be you are one who wasn't listening and later his tone was all sarcastic. That is not good. But isn't what we gals do too. Be hell lot of sarcastic.
3 - Why we always want the guys to change. Change their stying,way of thinking,living , food choices. Everything. We just want to overhaul the guy but we don't wanna change a bit. We want him to be honest but when he tells us that this outfit or hairdo doesn't suit us we are mad and throw temper tantrum.
4 - Why we always want the guy to come to us and say sorry.
5 - Why it is always my(gal's) way or highway. at same time in front of our friends we are the poor pathetic creatures and hubby is so 'cruel'.
6 - Why we think the gal is the one who is more emotional. It is the gals who are cold blooded. The woman's decisions are more rational and cold as compared to men.
Still we are the one who try to look more sad and depressed after a fight/argument.
7 - why we always think that whenever a guy is outside the house he can only do adultery.
8 - Why we want him to be perfect man in front of our relatives but we are not ready to be perfect women when it comes to his showtime.
So Ladies, Don't take it personal but just think over. It is time to use your heart. You have using that damned head from so long. Before quiting on a relationship think over. Not just twice but 100 times. Life is not easy for anyone after bad public argument or break up even worse after a divorce.