Royals and Di

Many years ago when Di died in crash, I was one of the ppl who thought that as the Royal Family hasn't commented that often or did the crying drama, it means they are guilty. Isn't it so simple to say such BS. So simple to blame.
Years later, now I feel that may be things weren't that simple for the royal family too. That is the family which is known for being most conservative and I haven't read any comments or anything from any body out of Royal family. It was just the death of Di when ppl felt that they aren't outspoken. I feel the Royal family was never outspoken. They were always quiet. When Di died she wasn't a part of royal family either. She was divorced. She was a island of her own self. Then why everybody was linking her with Royals.
People felt so bad that prince Charles was adulterous. But same guy when married the love of his life, same public appreciated. This looks like irony.People forget things so fast( only the ones they want to forget).
Today I don't feel at all that there was anything suspicious in her death, or why the Queen never did the boohoo thing right away.
That's England ppl. And the Royal family. They are brought up to be very composed in public, from the young age. That was the old conservative education of Royal people.

Hasnt anyone noticed the same beahaviour in the Princes. When the same kids/now adults just try to be like normal people. All the World make hue and cry and want them to be in special stature.
Then Why didnt the same world let the Queen and the royals mourn with grace at the difficult time of Di's death.